Monday, 15 December 2008
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her true feelings came out
so apparently me and my friend weren't as cool as i thought. i called our other best friend to tell her about him and i and i guess she couldnt wait to call her to see how she was taking it. and apparently she didnt figure out exactly how she felt about it until they got on the phone.
everything came out.
she thinks i stole him from her. she thinks i seduced him. she thinks that i have no morals. she thinks that im a bad person. she doesnt trust me anymore. im messed up for what i did............................the list goes on and on and on.
but i kind of.............dont care >.< i jus feel like.....ive made a mistake. but the damage is done, the only thing i can do is take it day by day and take things as they come. ive made my bed hard, and im gona lie in it. ive cried my tears last night, and i don plan on crying anymore. whats the point?? its not going to turn back time and let me do things over again. i couldve continued to keep this from them and let it fester. and just took it to my grave. but i let her in. i knew things wouldnt be peachy but damn.
she has a boyfriend. theyve been together for a year now. it doesnt make light of the situation but i feel like she contradicted herself with everything she said to my best friend last night. after she told me all this about im too good of a friend to lose over some dude she cant stand anyways. where did that statement go?? my best friend called and told me everything she said. i mean it hurt, but i know that i hurt her and that she was upset.
but i just feel like its whatever. if she doesnt want to be friends over that, i will be upset, but i will get over it. if he and i broke up tomorrow, yes i would be upset for a while, but trust me, i would get over it. i am a grown woman. i may have done something childish, but i believe in the fact that you can not choose who you develop feelings for or fallin love with. you cant predict who God will bring into your life and what for. you just have to take things day by day and deal with the cards as they are dealt.
and that is what i plan on doing.
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Comments (3)
You may be a grown woman but you sure are immature.
Best friends are ALWAYS there for you. Of course you can get into arguments, but it passes and you guys make up, maybe go shopping together or whatever. Guys come and go, and the ones that does stick, your boyfriend will have no problem with your best friend and vice versa. You don't EVER pick a guy over your best friend.
I don't know if she has the right to be mad at you (reading that you stole him away from her, qualifies her), but you say sorry and explain to her why you did. Make her see your point of view, switch it around, if she stole a guy away from you, would you be okay with it?
If the guy leaves you, who would be there to pick up the pieces, make you feel better, make fun of the guy with you? YOUR BEST FRIEND.
It's just surprising that you would give up a friendship for a guy...
You're a grown woman?...
Sure...
A bit immature?...
Definitely....
Goodluck
Ok i did that to a friend and it sucked we over came it and put it behind us and we are still friends then my best friend truned around and did it to me and it hurt so bad because well she was my best friend, we over came it and are still best friends and i guess what goes around comes around so i say if you dont want it done to you then dont do it to others, guys do come and go friends come and go lovers stay and leave best friend stay and leave its all what you make it but dont go and hurt the one person that is there for you the most, and why all the middle people thats low she felt she could talk to one of your guys friends and that person turnd around and told you everything she said sound like high school BS to me you are a growen women so just call her and say i did what i did i cant take it back just wanted you to know i'm sorry and leave it at that if she come around then good if she doesnt well you messed up the friendship but you two both still have life's to live so ur right take it day by day and just ask your self the next time your doing something worng and you know it ask your self how you would feel if some did it to you! And do you really love or like this guy? Was it worth the failed friendship?
hmm well it kinda hurt when your friend "takes" a guy from you and all of that...and i can understand why she would be upset...I was actually prett surprised that you said she took it fine the first time. BUT I honestly think that she will come around eventually, I think she is just really hurt. So I would explain to her everything...and not over the phone. Maybe just call her and ask her if you can go somewhere to seriously talk.
Also, guys do come and go...there are some people that you are sure will always be there...but even the ones you are ready spend the reast of your life with can leave...and then the only thing left is your friends... Im not sure if she will say something like we cant be friends if you are together...but before you guys talk think about what you will say to her if she tells you that, and think about why you would say that as well. Hopefully though, thats a decision you wont have to make. I know you are hurt as well, but don't just let it lie or give up on her. ^_^ im sure it'll work out...even if it doesnt seem like the best thing right now.